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Breaking Up and Moving On 8 Things that will heal a broken heart.
Breaking up is never fun. The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people. If the break up was mutual both people will experience a period of adjustment where they are getting used to no longer being together. If the break up was not mutual the person who ended things may be dealing with guilt and feelings that they may have made a mistake. The person being broken up with will definitely have to adjust, first to being rejected and second to life without somebody they still care for. How do you get through those first few weeks? Here we list eight essential things everybody must do in the early days of a break up to let the healing begin.
- Avoid the former love. Yes, avoid. No, this isn’t being immature. Seeing your former flame can bring out emotions and may cause you do to or say something you will regret. In the first few weeks the best thing you can do for yourself is not be where you know they will be.
- Talk out your feelings with close friends. Get everything out so that you won’t hold it inside. Your friends may get sick of hearing you talk about the situation but you need to let out all your feelings and thoughts or they may come back to bite you later.
- Cry if you want to. It’s OK to cry over a loss. Don’t hold back, let the tears roll just do it in a safe and private place where it is unlikely to get back to your ex. You don’t want your tears to be used as a guilt trip. Their purpose is to cleanse you of any pain not make your lover come back.
- Let go of mementos. Put away or give away anything and everything that reminds you of the relationship. Hide them out of sight so they will be out of mind until you are able to remember the relationship without longing for it to still be going strong.
- Don’t slip up and get together with your ex. When you are feeling sad or missing a relationship it can be very easy to fall back in to the arms of your ex but DO NOT DO THIS. This will only set you back and let’s face it, if things ended the relationship wasn’t perfect to begin with so why would you want to rekindle things?
- Focus on all the things about your ex that drove you crazy, turned you off, or that you just plain found annoying. Think about these things often and replay them in your mind over and over. Dwell on them. It will make you feel better to remember that your former flame was not perfect and that there are things you won’t really miss.
- Think about the mean, cruel or rude things your ex may have done in your relationship. Really give these things play in your memory. Remind yourself that somebody who truly cared for you would not have done such thoughtless things and tell yourself (over and over) that you are better off without that kind of ego crushing behavior in your life.
- Maintain a strict no contact policy and stick with it. Don’t pass notes through friends. Don’t make any calls. Stay away from instant messaging or texting on your cell. Just don’t contact your ex until you are totally and completely sure you no longer want to be with him or her. It is the only way.
Mending a broken heart is not easy but it can be done. Just stick to the game plan outlined above and before you know it you’ll be just fine. Good luck!
i love you you lost me and i’ll never coming back
As I look up into the sky,
I wonder all the reasons why,
Why did u have to do this to me,
I loved you so much cant you see,
I wanted you but u said u wanted something more,
You said you liked me the same as another yet you went to her instead while shutting my door,
You broke my heart and shattered my soul,
It turned my mind as dark as Cole,
I couldn’t be happy it was hard to smile,
Yet I knew being sad about you wasn’t worth the while,
Because it was obvious that you didn’t care me as much as I cared for you,
I wondered and waited for you to explain if this was what you really wanted to do,
I told you how it hurt me and I told exactly how I felt,
You sympathized and said you were sorry so I tried to forget all the pain I was dealt,
But u did it again I guess my love for you didn’t get through your head,
Just after I began to trust you I thought you wouldn’t hurt me but there I was misled,
And now im moving on all things about you im trying to forget,
i hope soon that you will finally see how much you really mean to me and youll live in regret,
i will never come back a good friend to you will be lost,
for all the problems you have caused me this seems like a minor cost,
ill miss you but maybe someday ill find someone else,
and maybe then you will realize how great we could have been,
but now its over and its something you should have seen,
I couldnt take you attacks forever someday i had to crack,
and now im gone and im never coming back.
moving on…
Yeah;
In time, the pain it took to stay, became greater than the pain it took to go.
As soon as u start to let go, they start to catch on…when they come back (like always) laugh in their face and never give in…they shouldve realized what they had before they said good-bye…sucks for them.
Never miss anyone from ur past…theres a reason they didnt make it to ur future.
Its weird how one day u feel ull never be able to live ur life without him…and then the next day ur doing exactly that.
Sometimes the best thing u can do for someone u love, is to let them go.
Growing up is full of big moments…some of them u can see coming from a mile away…and some u cant see at all.
Letting go doesnt mean u have to stop loving someone…it simply means u have to accept that there are some things that cannot be.
True love is letting go…true love is never letting ur heart let go.
Im sick of the excuses that u want me to believe…ive been understanding, giving, everything u need…u used me, its over now, and soon ur gonna see im done with u.
You dont ever stop loving someone…its more a matter of learning to deal with the pain of not having them anymore.
Isnt it funny how one person can walk into ur life and right at that moment u think that they are the one…isnt it funny how after all the tears, and the hurt and the pain u still think that they are the one…isnt it funny how no matter what this person does to u or says to u, in ur heart u still feel that they are the one…why is that? why do we make ourselves fall head over heals for someone who in return isnt that great…when more often then not the right one, the nice one, the one who wont hurt u and betray u, is staring u right in the face…it could be a friend, or someone that u occasionally talk to…but isnt it funny how no matter what everyone says, that one person that hurts u and betrays u is never going to go away, no matter how many people u meet that will probably never do that to u…how we push them away.
Ull never leave where u are, until u decide were u would rather be.
Despite everything i always did what i can…stayed in the storm when most wouldve ran…too much pride and u know its hard not to cry…have to let things go even though it hurts inside.
If u fall in love, and they fall in love with u, then love chooses to leave….dont try to reclaim it or assess blame, let it go…theres a reason and theres a meaning…sometimes, letting go and saying good-bye is a simple way of saying i love u.
Forgive and forget, relive and regret.
I dont want u to leave, but we all know sometimes its better to go…somehow i know we’ll meet again, not sure quite where and i dont know just when, but ur in my heart…so until then, smile, dont want to cry saying good-bye.
If u love me, let me know, if u dont, let me go.
Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, its not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who wouldnt give up on them.
Why keep ur life on hold, for hope?
Im not a child anymore…im tall enough to reach for the stars…im old enough to love u from afar…too trusting? Yes…but then, women usually are.
There are some things in life that dont go the way u want them to or the way u think they should, but u cant dwell on these because ull miss out on other opportunities…dont give up on something just because u dont think things will work, u wont know unless u give it a try…but dont hold onto something that left a long time ago, because sooner or later ull realize some things just arent meant to be.
No matter how big the world is, if we are meant to be together, love will lead us to be together.
A women has got to love a bad man once or twice in her life, to be thankful for a good one.
And i know it might sound crazy, but after all that, i still love u…u wanna come back in my life…but now there is something i have to do…i have to tell the one that i once adored, that they cant have my love no more…cause my heart cant take no more lies, and my eyes are all out of cries.
Funny when u wait for the right person to come along, u always end up with the wrong one… but when u just sit in one corner and forget the person exists, he comes and asks if he could share the corner with u.
Sometimes u have to walk away to see if the other person will follow.
So if i have to leave u, i want u to know that in the end it wasnt because i stopped caring, it was because u stopped being a friend.
If only promises could erase the past, i could open my heart enough to take u back…but weve been down this road, time and time again…and ive learned the hard way, how the story always ends.
A man never knows how to say goodbye…a woman never knows when to say it.
Im going to smile my best smile and im going to laugh like its going out of style…looking into his eyes and praying that he doesnt see that learning to live without him is killing me.
You either want me or u dont…u think ill keep waiting but i wont.
But i will not break down…because i know that he is happy…and because i still love him…that has not changed… because i loved him not knowing whether he loved me back or not…i may have lost him…and us…but i will not lose me.
Im not gonna cry…im waving goodbye…and i know this time u got nothing on me.
I dont have the heart to hurt u, thats the last thing i want to do, but i dont have the heart to love u, not the way u want me to.
Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. -Alfred, Lord Tennyson
The best thing about loving and being hurt is that u get to know what true love really is…for as gold is tested in fire, and so will love be perfected in pain.
The world was on fire, nobody could save me but u…strange what desire makes foolish people do…i never dreamed that id love somebody like u…no i never dreamed that id lose somebody like u…and, i dont wanna fall in love, no, i dont wanna fall in love…with u.
People change, things go wrong, things will happen, but life goes on.
Sometimes there are no second chances…sometimes im sorry doesnt make things better.
